Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Hi Honey, WE'RE BACK!

Thank you Michel and Rachel for
driving us to Brussels on a miserable,
rainy Sunday afternoon.  After a short
sleep in an airport hotel at
6 a.m. the following day Tom, from
Skyfast, picked Piper up;  talk about
trust, handing over my precious dog
to a complete stranger....I won't share
the thoughts I had regarding this!  Tom
was to take Piper to the plane just
before takeoff.

After getting on the plane Alec said,
"well mom, after the chaos of last
week everything went amazingly well,
eh?"

And then we landed!

"How long have you been out of the
country?"
"Nine months," said this Canadian citizen
and permanent resident of the US of A.

"Did not anyone tell you that you were to
inform Immigration before you left?"

"Ah, no sir."

"Go to line B"

Line B.  I'm not exactly sure what B stands for
but I could think of a few words;  boring wasn't
one of them.  After two hours of waiting and much
tapping I started to laugh.  "Alec, I can assure
you I am the only Canadian in this crowd and you
are the only American;  Sari's, Burqa's, dreadlocks,
and all shades of colours.  "Just think of it this way,
Alec, this is another story to add to our collection."

Finally, we were released and walked into the waiting
arms of Jeff.  An hour later we were reunited with
Piper in cargo.  Then a 3 1/2 hour drive home to
Roanoke.


Shock:  a sudden or violent disturbance of the mind, 
            emotions, or sensibilities
So says dictionary.com.


You may be thinking that our shock was returning from
the Old World of France to the New World of
the United States and the stark differences between the
two cultures;  I mean lets face it, we just don't
do bread the way France does bread.
And it's hard to beat 3 euro bottles of fabulous wine or
 the cheese, 365 different types
of cheese, one for each day of the year.

Perhaps you are thinking that shock settled in when
we could actually see our neighbours yards, front and
back and realize that there are no high, stuccoed walls
separating each neighbour or that we could even see through
windows, into warmly lit living rooms  because there are
no closed shutters
separating the inside world from
 the outside world.

Or was the shock in realizing that our 112 year old
house is not old (we were living
in a 15th century home in Lessy.

No, the real shock is  the
"sudden disturbance of the mind
emotions and sensibilites" of JEFF,
my husband and Alec's father.
After five minutes back home Jeff looked
like a deer in headlights, suddenly aware
that his bachelorhood existence of
these past nine months was becoming
a mere shadow.

Before we came home Jeff warned Rita,
our downstairs tenant, "be aware,
things are about to change!"

Well honey, WE'RE BACK!;  one adventure
accomplished though not finished;  I
will be "unpacking" the experience of
our time in France for a long time.

During Christmas, when Jeff was visiting
us in France, our friends Brigitte and
Bernard gave us a gift, a small acorn.
Last summer they had visited our cabin in Vermont
and wanted to give us an oak tree from
France.


When Jeff returned home he planted this
acorn, which has since sprouted and sits
on our tiny, enameled top kitchen table,
just waiting, and growing and perhaps
imagining herself one day
as a mighty oak.

Thank you, Jeff, for believing in me
enough to let me go on this adventure
with our son.

And to all of my friends and family,
Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
Mary Oliver, New and Selected Poems




Thursday, May 31, 2012

Everything in Perspective

While trying to pack up our
nine months here in France
I decided to check my airplane
reservations one more time,
even though they were
confirmed.  My conclusion,
after spending the entire day
on the phone?;

"DO NOT TRUST UNITED"

Friday, May 25, 2012

Today I Am Grateful for the Journey


Today I am grateful. 
 I celebrate  the day I was born 
in a small town in
Northern Ontario, Canada;
5th child of 7 all told. Daniel,
my oldest brother,  only lived a 
couple of days and though 
I never got to meet him
in person I believe he is here, 
present in my life,
 big brother to all of his siblings.


Today, I am grateful 
for my dad,
who left too soon, too fast.
He told me often, Noli Timere, 
Be Not Afraid and taught me to embrace life
 with humour, no matter the situation; 
 his glass was always half full.  
And for my mom, 
 our quiet,  steady centre of hospitality to whom,
 now, many years later I can say 
I am grateful that "I am just like you...." 
 (uh, I'm not exactly quiet).


Today I am grateful,
 for my younger brother and sister,
 Jon and Pati, 
and for my three older siblings,
Margie, Rick and Marty;
 I am blessed to have been
born into their embrace.

For Jeff, my husband
 and Alec, our son,
for enriching my life
with your love,
I am grateful.

I am grateful
for family and friends
 and dogs
who make my world
a blessed placed. 

I am grateful 
for this journey,
for waking every day
to the freedom to choose.

The Journey
One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice--
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
"Mend my life!"
each voice cried.
But you didn't stop.
you knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do--
determined to save
the only life you could save.

            Mary Oliver